On Thanksgiving Day, 2023, I received the following note from a student I had over 40 yrs ago. We are both now retired teachers. I print his note, unedited, and with permission. Name withheld. This husband/wife team were both in my band at that time.
Hi John, (Mr. Gardner, it’s hard to address a former teacher by his first name.)
I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and today is the day. I just want to let you know how much I appreciate the years we had as teacher and student. I can remember the many times a couple of students would stay after school and you would get out your instrument and play with us for a few minutes. I could never get enough of making music! Also, I wasn’t in a hurry to get home.
My parents started divorce proceedings during the spring of my Senior year, and the stability of band class helped me through that. You felt more like an older brother or friend than a teacher. I appreciate you putting up with my immaturity and craziness. I’m still crazy, but your former trumpet player has to deal with it now. Of course, I have to deal with the ego of a 1st trumpet player.
I truly believe that for me, music is one of the greatest gifts God gave us. You did so much to help me love music even more. Thanks again for everything you have done for me and thousands of other students. God bless you and Joan. Happy Thanksgiving.
Sincerely,